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[gem112]

why does it seem men from tunisia take things so seriously i told my boyfriend that i couldnt get him something i am goin next sunday and he hung up on me and not anwsering the phone now just want to add he has never asked me for money

[ammulu]

I never heard of such a thing, may be not all are the same. It surely depends on nature of a person, all are different in nature. Though not from tunisia, but still my boyfriend used to hang up at times, its all in the nature. Men feel they can't understand women but I feel women can't understand men, haha.

[woudlg]

Gem, be very wary of a man who asks you to take him something (especially if it's expensive) and gets annoyed if you don't oblige - it should be enough that you're travelling all that way and forking out for a plane ticket to be honest and your presence in Tunisia should be enough of a gift to him.

[dancer]

Heya I totally agree with Woudlg, although my tunisian bf can take things the wrong way and doesnt understand english life or infact the cost of things over here and cos aswell as dancing I have to work other jobs, he thinks I have alot of money cos Im always working lol, but its cos everythings so expensive over here. But then again I dont always understand his life! But Im sure everything will be fine amd youll have a fantastic time together! Im going tomz to Germany to see my man and I cant wait!!!!!

[tater03]

I don't think that they are all that way personally but that is rude to hang up on you especially just because you cannot take him something. I mean I am sure you have plenty of other things that you need to pack. Have a great trip by the way.

[Sweetie]

Hi Gem,
Be carefull I was engaged to a Tunisian guy who would be like that, turns out he was just a conman. (I am not saying everyone is like that, not at all) But I am sure everyone remembers the thread on Mohamed H the Lead Animator.
Just be careful my dear.

[jools]

Hi Gem,
I agree with the other members, I think you should tread carefully with any guy whether they are Tunisian or not, especially when they ask you to take something out to them & then get annoyed or angry when you can't meet their requests, just be sensible, it may be nothing other than him being a little too sensitive & having a bad case of over reacting!
I hope you have a good & safe trip.

jools.

[ammulu]

There are times when the guys say they love the person for what they are but things change after marriage. Something are asked to change, I wonder how can someone love a person for what they are and later ask for change. I am not sure if anyone else faced such a situation. But it is really hard that some people tend to behave so else hang up. This was something I knew of.

[ROULLA]

Hi Ammula,

Hope that you are in good health !
Yes you are not wrong at all, if you meet someone and fall in love with that person then under no cir***stances do you expect that person to change, we are who we are and that is what makes us all different from each other, so exept me for who i am and not how you want me to be.............................., theres always someone out there who are compatible for each other somewhere...................

[angela walker]

Originally Posted by Sweetie

Hi Gem,
Be carefull I was engaged to a Tunisian guy who would be like that, turns out he was just a conman. (I am not saying everyone is like that, not at all) But I am sure everyone remembers the thread on Mohamed H the Lead Animator.
Just be careful my dear.

I, writing as my boyfiend is in animation and im reading all these stories , i dont think mine is the same as the other 2 guys that were there were sleeze ball but he was diffrerent , why is the men in animation what makes them so different, im i doing the right thing, im going back in september and he is saying no matter what he wants to be with me, he has met my parents and spent all his free time with me and my parents he was never trying to drag me off on my own but like i said im new to this and just need some advice please, i have so many questions that need to be answerwed.