Dolly

hi no you didnt upset me lol, sorry i havent replied i havnt got a computer so cant always get access to the internet, im jus a little nervous about him having it incase he was refused and got upset and wanted him there if he had the birth certificate i wanted to be sure there was nothing he could act on with it, but i have spoken to the home office now and this seems very unlikely, his relative has now said that they would sponsor him nowso everything seems alot more hopeful and i feel alot less streesed which trust me is a good thing lol, thankyou very much for your reply and i hope you are well and il try to keep you updated and if you can i would apreciate it if you find any information if you wwould post it on my page, thankyou very much, take care, kath88

Hi my lovely twin sis, yes I do want to talk to you and feel I can cos you are lovely x Love you too and my stuff is sooo complicated lol. I needed that dolly and thankyou for your lovely words. Please let me know your private details and thanks so much. Luv ya twin . and boussa barcha barcha back to you. xxx

right back at you with that!

cud you help me i dont know what to do my fiance wants to apply for a visit visa to see our son and everyone is saying that we may not get a visiting visa but am afraid we cant afford to apply for a settlement visa, im on benefits and am worried that this will affect our aplication aswell, i have to send him a copy of our sons birth certificate and am worried if he gets refused if he can do anything with it, any of these points that you could help with would be great, please can you reply asap i cant stay on here much longer kath 88

Are you blonde as well like me?? Only joking hun. yeah, he's not happy about being a male in the women's room so to speak. But he will come with me at least for 1 night. I am debating whether to stay for a couple of days. would love a mini break. I'll convince myself over the next few days I'm sure. See you soon

oh dolly just wrote a message to you and posted it to myself lol if only I had a brain cell! Not sure yet Dolly who is coming but will let you know. ahh bless your hubby hes right though its a bit uncumfy for them if they are the only one. would like to meet you both together as well you sound so lovely together. xxxx

Thanks dolly and big hugs right back xxxxx

Hi my little twin Gemini x would love to have your number and give you a call that would be great. Oh dolly cant wait to meet you as I know we will get on great sooo excited just hope I can sort out my work stuff xxxxxx

Ah Dolly Im sorting it out with work now!!! I cant wait to meet you am so excited and we can talk the hind legs off a donkey. cant wait, cant wait ohhhhh hurry up. hope your hubby is fine as well..say hello to him from me asslema xxxxx

hi 'dolly' lol! hows life over there in far away tunisia?? ive lost your email and would love to keep in better contact so can u send it to me again somehow please? mines [email protected] difficult without the pm system now! hows your hubby going? things have been a bit rocky with my man but ok for now (hopefuly) its like days of our lives sometimes with a tunisian man im finding lol!! or at least with mine it is. im not used to having a man try and boss me around but as u say just wait till he gets here one day (hopefully) the tables will turn LOL Take vare and hope everythings going well for you! lyndalxxx

Thankyou Dolly and Im happy to be your fellow Gemini friend xxx sometimes the comments are rude and hurtful no need for that when people are feeling bad anyway.these people never know that one day they could be in the same situation xxxxx

Hi dolly just typed a message to natnat a great big long one and went to post it and it had logged me out!!!! anyway you wrote similar to what I had written and you wrote lovely words to her as she needs support. as for the age thing its nothing you are happy and thats enough. xxxxxxxxPaula

Oh no, I wasn't offended at all. Sometimes when I read these threads about age difference i tend to get a bit angry. TBH I never thought about age before, even when we married. i think it's just reading it here and it kind of surprises me about prejudices. I try not to be too defensive about my own situation. Like I said, my husband is not a youngster any more and I'm certainly not elderly LOL!!! But thank you for your message, much appreciated.

Hi there, PM not working so thought about writing you here.

I didn't mean to make you feel bad, I thought we were having a convo about society and such.

I'm sorry if I made you feel bad or offended you.

Oh no! Take care and I wish you a safe and uneventful trip back. Rug up and keep warm.

Hi there - thanks for your post. Glad to hear Bizerte is sunny, for now! (0: No, I don't get to Bizerte very much - we have three young kids and the hour's drive is a lot for them! Do you have kids? How long have you been married? How do you like living in Tunisia so far? Anything you are missing terribly? For me it is Mexican food!!!How's your Arabic coming along? I read a post of your's that you are learning slowly - me too. It is not easy. And I too wish I could say more to my dear MIL - she is great. Keep in touch and yes, let me know if you are headed up this way ok? Take care....