paula01

Hi Paula - thanks for your lovely message. I think too many here perhaps jump too quickly. Poor natnat just wanted some support, not sure if she wanted any advice. As for the age thing - agreed!! Having read lots of your posts I think you are a gorgeous lady and I'm happy to be your friend!

Lesley

thnx for request, accepted x

thanks hun request accepted :) xx

hey paula, been busy had no heating for 3 days my boiler broke down, its going now but cost me £350, then found out my middle son has mounted up lots of debt and a baliff was on his way to my home, so had to pay some money over the phone to stop that. then had a massive row with my son, so he moved out and has now just told me hes been laid off his job...spoke to my husband today told him i cant come out any time soon as i have no money and because of the snow i cant even get to my job...asked him if he wants to forget it, as he aint got his passport i cant get there whats the point...he had a right go at me he wants to carry on.. i am usually an optomistic person paula but at this time im a tad pissed off and wondering whats next....hows u x

ha ha me too

yes... much better than the monkey one LOLLLL

hey you nice avatar xxxxx

I tried to send you a reply message but not sure you recieved it, so i will write it again,still getting used to doing this!! anyway you asked if i thought about living in Tunisia, i have 3 sons the youngest is 14 and there is no way he would leave uk and his dad also my husband doesnt like to live in Tunisia himself before he met me he was going to return to Dubia where he was a resident for 6 yrs, he did ask me to consider living there with him in a few years time when my son finishes his education!! Also do i trust him? well 99% maybe!!! havent really found anything fishy so far and believe me i have looked im a bit of a detective, i know all the signs i was married to my first husband for 18yrs, and it was 18yrs of womanising and cheating, he is a big ole English Love Rat!e Anyway the only problem i have is this passport issue really,just dont know how much longer he will have to wait for it, he has asked me to go out in Feb im not sure if i will depends how much money i have x

Hey just to let you know, I got a text about 40mins ago, havent replied yet, letting him sweat. Though I will give in, in a min cos I am itching now x

Hey Chick,

The snow is bad in Brum and its very icy, I work in Notts and my train was cancelled and I waited an hr and a half to see if I can get to Notts then gave up and worked from the Birmingham office. I hate the snow, I know that Kent gets it really bad my aunty all rings and moans how bad it is. The whole country has come to a standstill and its meant to get worse. I want it to go away.

Anyways how are you? Is it really cold in Kent? x

Thanks for that putts my mind at rest :) but to be honest I am not worried that he is upto anything, just annoys me that he thinks he can be so laid back.. if there is no contact there is no relatonship, he has got to realise that, we are not just going to get married from thin air are we xx

mobile, but his house (the family house has a landline).. I dont usually arrange times, when I call him I call him when ever but I usually do it around 9pm when my house has calmed down, but dont want to call him too late either, ut like to say goodnight to him.
When he calls me he arranges it with me but thats because he will say ok I will call you tomorrow, what time? so he calls me when I say.. and I usually say 6/7pm and he has called before and if I say I am doing something he says oh I will call you later, but I say no I can still speak to u x

I usually call him about 9pm.. so 10pm there so I did not do that last night, and when he calls its usually if we have arranged it the night before, if I say I havent ot much money on my phone and cant afford to get anymore x

Still not heard from him, and I dont want to give in. I kind of want to have ago but then it will break the slence, and I want to know how long it is going to take him to get in touch x

Yeah go girl, Its so hard not being able to talk face to face and txts can come across as sounding different to what you mean! Tell him how you feel and say I am your future wife so make MORE EFFORT. Let me know how you get on. good luck X

I think in a minute I am going to give in call him but give him a piee of my mind, if not ext him to say if he cant be bothered with this relatonship neither can i, but I doubt he would understand the text LOL..
yeah I think we expect them to make more effort once we are fiance or wife, whereas they think I have got what I want, I dont have to do anything now... well S is certainly going to learn that, that is not the case, and he still has to work for me!!
I have jb searched loads, for call centres etc, nobody is getting back to me, and I dont think I have a bad c.v :(
I will let everybody know whether he calls lol x

Well, Monday night he said to me, maybe if I can go out tomorrow (cos he cant walk well due to accident atm) I maybe go to internet, and see you there, he means MSN but he didnt then I spoke with him tues and he said the same and I called him about 10.30am yesterday morning to find out, and he did not answer which I know he had physio yesterday but he would have got a missed call, and then since then I have not tried again, as I am going to wait an see...xx