Plz Need Help

[Nizar.M]

in the next 6 months my girlfirend will travel to me so we can marry ,i just want to coz she was married before and all of her do***ents are still in her exhusbands name even her passport.
will it be a problem for when we will apply for the eea family permit?
the reason iam asking this is coz she was married before and she still use her ex husband name just because her children wanted her keep the same name as her . and in the application for the embassy online they ask for her family name is this her father family name or her name that she use all the time (her exhusband name)?
and when we will return to the uk she will change everything to my family name
Thanks.

[jukcoder]

Better check this forum , UkResident.com and hear from people who know.

As for your coming to the UK, I wish you, already, know what's like to live in the UK as a foreigner even if you are married to a British national.

Once the honeymoon is over, you have to take care of yourself.

What you already know about the English is just a part of their customer service manners .Apart from that every single move -even a smile is calculated.

Earning no more than 500d a month + a local wife who understands you is far better than any life you expect in the UK.


All the best

[beckijj]

i have to disagree with you there i do not no your history but from seeing my friends who are both married to tunisians and my male friends married to english women they make the life themselves. if they chose to live in england im not saying its going to be easy but they have the support of their partner and it is the same living in a foreign country anywhere. you need the support from the partner and the family. if you dont have that support you will feel isolated but that comes with every relationship.

yes take care of yourself but doesnt that come with everything always look after yourself. u need to be possitive because if you do not think it will work then it wont work. i have 2 friends who i have grown up with and both married to tunisian men and they are happy and the men are happy too.

they are not getting calculated and they are living thier life as if they live in their own country.

personally its always what you make of it whether its a holiday or a relationship. if someone is not makeing the effort then yes it will feel hard but the love is there and i do believe that that will conquer all.

gud luck nizar and im sure you will be fine

[Nizar.M]

People i dont know what your talking about ? but its not about what idid ask

[pej]

I agree that this thread also quickly strayed away from the subject. Please do not tell anyone here what will happen to them after a possible move, as you can not know this. Nizar,as for your wife-to-be still using her ex-husband's name, this should not be a problem as such. It is not unusual after a divorce if there are children involved, but as long as the divorce is final there is no legal reason why you should not be married and apply for eea permit. That is probably the name they ask for in the application as well, but contact them if you are in doubt.

[issam]

i've been living in the uk for almost 8 years,it has been hard for the start like anywhere else in the world,but i always try to make things better with a good plan, i know plan some time does not fit the practical way,but i managed from scrach with nothing , i only relyed on my skills in life that i set up one retail company with a franchise based in costa del sol spain with good turnovers and i set up another company promoting the new developement in properties in tunisia and trying to franchise worldwide every thing did not come from god's gifts but everything has came after a determination and hard work others are enjoying living on the benefit and making harder for others to acheive,goals might seem to be hard to acheive but if you want you can,a good couple always build the magic and behind every succesfull men a women

[jukcoder]

I never use my case or personal experience in judgement. This is how it is.

I have seen many Tunisians got married to grannies [,] got treated like trash

and finally ending up living off part-time jobs in restaurants and takeways.


And you know what they say about this country's weather and women.

If she went on a holiday and changed her mind, how will you guarantee she

won't do this again ? Call me negative , kill-joy or whatever you like


If you are skilled or business man as in Issam case, this is right place for

somebody who want to achieve something - not rely on benfits or waste his

life working for min wage .

I never got/will get married to an English woman. I came here to further my

study and the exit inhsha Allah will be soon



As I said nizar, if you ask this question in UKResident.com forum, you will get

a good answer, especifically from Victoria - a good immigration lawyer


Easy brethrens !

[pej]

Jukcoder, again stop deciding what is the truth as this is indeed what you are trying to do. It is too bad that things didn't work out for your friends and that they for some reason ended up with part-time jobs which I assume had nothing to do with the divorce as surely they worked or tried to even before the divorce. A member on this forum asked for advice in a matter that is serious to him, so your unnecessary comments on unrelated matters have no place here.

[beckijj]

i totally agree with pej, this site is for helping people with questions not adding on to answers or avoiding the actual question altogether.

don't worry nizar imk sure you will be fine, there should not be a problem what so ever your fiance being married before. i cant say i have read about anyone else having any problems and there is a lot of people who have been married before.

[toonssia]

Hi Nizar!
Has she envisaged to change her passport back to her maiden name (kids wont know about it) then you'll get married inchAllah and you wont have to worry about this issue?
That was just a suggestion only trying to be helpfull!
All the besy inchAllah Mabrouk