trip seller from hotel vincci port el kantoui

[karenc]

can anyone help?
when i stayed at the vincci hotel, i met a guy who sold trips on the beach. i am now in a relationship with him and have been to visit him twice. but the last time i was there someone from the vincci told me he had been seeing other women. i confronted him and he said that people that work in hotel always say things about eachother. im a little aprehensive about this does anyone know about Najib who sells trips from the hotel?

[Essem]

Hi Karen, I don't know your guy. What I have seen is a degree of sabotage and a lot of jealousy especially when someone attains some happiness - lovely girlfriend, the chance of a better life. On the other hand, long distance relationships can be difficult and there is a standing joke here about Departures & Arrivals at Monastir - some of them wave their girlfriends off on one plane whilst waiting for the next ones to arrive! I'm cynical because I've lived here for a while and I've seen, not all of it, but a lot of what goes on. Go with your gut feeling on this one - it never lets you down!

[RachaelLahmar]

Hi Karen

I know ur bf as i stayed in the vincci and i livd in tunisiafor about 3 years and was in and around the vincci area quiet alot. Nejib is a nice guyand i think u shud trust him the times in which have known him i have never really seen him with any wwomen to be honest lol he seems kool though but just go with wat ur heart and head say good luck

[issam]

thanks for putting your words about this person,this is what happen some peaple they talk about peaple they never met in their lives and they can put someone relationship in a shit,because they pretend to know every thing,or when ever they went for a visit they always look for something to pick up and to make a story when they come back.things if it happened it can happen any where in the world,this guy he might know peaple through his work as freinds and there is no problem with that

[samwella]

to be honest karen I agree with what everyone else says, there is always jealousy when others can see that 2 people really do care about each other and all they want to do is cause trouble. These people could even have wives and families of their own but wouldnt be happy unless they interfier with others. I know this from experience and you do have to pay a price for it.
I'm not saying dont be hesitent, its a new relationship and of course you might be treading he waters but dont listen to idle gossip. If me or my hubby had done this well we wouldn't be where we would be now and now we no longer have anything to do with these types of people our lives couldn't be better.

[RachaelLahmar]

Exactly Issam my hubby to be owns a shop in PEK so i ave to deal with him talking and getting to know some tourists for 2 weeks whilst they are there just to get them to buy some gifts etc from his shop but once they have got on that plane they are gone! But as samwella said the amount of problems ppl men and women try and cause is laughable and having 4 years together and me living there we had our fare share of gossipers but we are still together thats what they hate to see. But after a while they find another couple to pick on! Just trust eachother and just try not to listen and just talk to eachother! Hope it works out!

[samwella]

exactly rach, they move onto the next couple and then once they see that they can't split you up or cause trouble anyone they then try and act like your friends again and that they've always been happy for you.
When jealousy is involved it can have very nasty effects on people, but if you know its real and believe in him 100% then you know what jsut ognore everyone else and let concentrate on their own sad little lives

[Sally]

Hi Rachel
Which shop does your fella own? My man has a friend with a shop in PEK but I can't remember his name or if he actually owns the shop! Its one next to fountains and I know it has some good copy designer bags! How often do you go - I was in PEK in Dec and going back in Feb. Sorry if I'm being too nosy - u can just ignore me!!

[RachaelLahmar]

Hiya Sally no its not near the fountin, its on the other side lol Well Before Nov last year i was living in Tunisia since Sept 204 with my parents because i fell in love with my now fiance and am now in the UK trying to sort papers out for hs visa and unchallah getting married in April (if i csn get the time off work!). I have just returned friday 11th so still feeling depressed about leaving him but going back to work on Monday so should make it easier! So whats ur story? Soz but eveyon seems to haveone lol Take Care

[Sally]

Hi Rachel

How lovely and very exciting - will you get married in Tunisia and then live here?
I met my man only in Oct last year and went back to see him in December after constant contact for 6 weeks. I knew what I felt was different to what I had ever felt before but thought maybe the bubble would burst when I spent a whole week with him - but it didn't!!

We are now trying to get a visitors visa for him in the first instance - we find out next week - I'm so scared they will say no. If it is a no I will go back in Feb, inshallaah and see what we can sort out.
Its all very difficult but I hust cannot walk away from a man as kind and generous as him who has made me feel how I have never felt before. Finally at 31 I have found a man who treats me well - just a shame we have all the visa restrictions eh?!!?